Some women love wearing wild lingerie, while others aren’t quite comfortable wearing such intimate attire. They feel insecure, awkward and anything but sexy when wearing sensual lingerie, feeling exposed with all their body imperfections on full display for their partner. But with thoughts like that, it’s nearly impossible to feel confident and beautiful while wearing luxury and sensual lingerie! If you love lingerie and want to feel more confident in a black lace teddy or a super revealing baby doll, here are some helpful tips on how to feel more confident wearing lingerie!
- Get all dolled up
Whenever you wear lingerie for an intimate evening with your partner, it helps if you get all dolled up! Put on makeup, do your hair, and anything else that makes you feel confident and beautiful. Polish your nails, shave your legs and anything else that’s part of your “special” beauty routine. Taking the time to beautify yourself will make you more confident when you’re wearing a sexy bra and panty set or any other sensual lingerie outfit.
- Buy lingerie you feel most confident in
The key to feeling confident in erotic lingerie is wearing something you absolutely love! Pick out something that accentuates your best features and makes you feel gorgeous. It’s totally okay if it’s nothing crazy or colored. If simple is what you like, simple lingerie will do just fine! All that matters is that you wear something that will increase your comfort levels. You can always work your way up to experimenting with different lingerie styles as you start to feel more comfortable.
- Channel your inner goddess
Kinky lingerie is supposed to make you feel empowered, so as you’re getting ready imagine yourself as a seductive goddess. Feeling like a sultry queen as you put on your teddy or bustier and look in the mirror will help you change any negative thoughts you have about yourself while wearing the sensual lingerie.
- Dim the lights
If you’re still feeling uneasy about wearing a lingerie teddy or a babydoll nightgown, you can always dim the lights in your room so that your partner will just be able to see enough. Lighting candles will not only dim the light so that it’s not so bright, but will also help set a romantic mood and make you feel more comfortable in the end!
Don’t worry if you don’t feel confident in lingerie overnight; it’s something that can take some practice!